Successful spirit communication depends not only on the medium and the people in
the Spirit World, but also on the client! I request that you prepare yourself for your mediumship reading or seance by following these guidelines.
Book your reading or seance for a quiet time in your day.
In the days before your reading or seance with me, take some time to reflect on the situation(s) that you would like to have guidance on. Formulate your questions. This gives Spirit the chance to find the answers for you.
Also, in the days before your reading or seance, spend some time in quiet meditation: Invite your Spirit guides and Spirit loved ones to come and join our reading or seance!
Do not consume alcohol or
recreational drugs on the day of your appointment! Alcohol and recreational drugs interfere with spirit reception!
If the day of your reading or seance has been hectic for you, try to take some
time to relax before your appointment. If this has not possible, let me know
when you arrive for your appointment. I will be happy to lead you
through a guided meditation to help you relax and unwind. There is no
extra charge for this. I would not count the guided meditation
time against your scheduled time.
Put your mind at ease and
relax. It creates a better atmosphere for the seance and makes it
easier for your spirit loved ones to make contact.
Be joyous and look forward to your reading! Spirit communication is joyful occasion! Your spirit loved ones look forward to this opportunity to communicate with you.
Your spirit loved ones will bring an abundance of information to establish their identity: They may give their
names and how they are related to you, the condition and circumstances
around their death, personality quirks, etc. Be willing to acknowledge
evidential information with a brief 'Yes, that's right.' Acknowledgment
lets the spirit people know that the information they are transmitting
is really getting through to you. It strengthens the spirit connection in a
powerful way and brings forth further messages from Spirit.
While it is important to acknowledge information with a 'yes', don't provide extra information! Let it come from Spirit.
Be patient with the
information provided. Some things make more sense at the end of the reading or even days or weeks later.
If you have
specific questions, meditate on them in advance of the seance, so that
Spirit has time to get the answer for you.
Wait until the end of the session before you ask your question; Spirit is likely to answer all your questions during the course of our session.
Create Optimal Conditions for Telephone Readings
A telephone reading underscores the fact that the client is a co-creator of the mediumship reading experience. Because mediumship is delicate, a telephone mediumship reading requires additional preparation from the client. If you schedule a telephone reading with me, I strongly urge you to follow these instructions in addition to those already covered:
Take our telephone reading in a comfortable, quiet place where you will not be disturbed.
Let others know ahead of time that you will not be available to them for the duration of our call. You may need to put a 'Do Not Disturb' sign on your door!
Make sure that the room temperature is comfortable so you won't be distracted by physical discomfort.
Have a glass of water and box of Kleenex handy so you won't have to get up during the reading.
If possible, take the reading on a landline so you won't have a problem with fading signals and a dropped call.
If you use a cellphone for our telephone reading, find a location with a strong signal so you will be able to hear me.
Turn off or ignore call waiting during our reading.
Silence all other telephone lines.
Turn off the TV.
Banish distractions such as children, friends, noisy pets etc. from your reading room.
Please do not engage in extraneous activities such as washing your dishes, running your vacuum cleaner, cleaning your house, or playing loud music in the background! I can hear what's going around you. Background noise make it harder for me to maintain my link with the spirit world. (This would seem obvious; except that people often don't realize that a their telephone mediumship reading is very different from chatting on the phone with a friend!)
Listen carefully and please do not be too quick to interrupt. Let the reading unfold at its pace.
If you wish light a candle, burn a little incense, place flowers or plants in your reading room to put you in the mood for our telephone mediumship reading.